What I've Learned Over the Past Week at ABM Ministries
I have learned several things over the past week by experience. Firstly, I have learned to fully appreciate things that are given to me.
Over the past few weeks we have been amidst natural disasters: the weather was bad, we lost power, and we experienced several flash floods. Even though Mr. Larry, Mrs. Carmen, Mr. Reed, and Mrs. Beth's home was flooded, they continued to display a work ethic that could only be described in one word - supernatural. I would watch them toil diligently amidst much difficulty and tribulation and I was awed by how they do it. I came to the conclusion that this astounding work ethic was stemming from somewhere else. I believe that any other person would have crumbled under the stress that they were being put through. It was definitely God with them throughout this stressful time. This left me astounded because if God can strengthen those that are experiencing such tribulation; there is nothing I cannot endure with His power.
Secondly, I learned that amidst tribulation I can be cool and collective. I noticed during the flash floods we went through, that the least common thing was a frown on the faces of others. I always imagined such events would bog people down; we can all thank the media for that. The most common facial expression was a smile. This also shocked me and again I came to the same conclusion. God was at work amidst our "hardship". I would not even call it that because I realized that God will take care of us and that is precisely what he did and is still doing.
These events perfectly mirrored the words of Isaac. He said, "God will provide." And God provided the lamb. Among our tribulation, God provided a sense of unshakable peace amidst chaos. Praise God because when the waters rose and beat vehemently upon our building it stood firm.
By: Josh Coppi
A Word from our Senior Pastor
The Positive vs. the Negative
As we confront the everyday struggles of raising a family we must do our best to focus on the positive attributes of our family members. We can all agree that there are many areas of our personal lives that need to be addressed, however when we tend to focus our thoughts and energy on these negative areas they tend to grow in size rather than diminish. I believe that we should focus on the qualities that are good and take that energy to help grow these areas. As we do this the other areas will disappear altogether and become less of a stressor in the family arena. How many times have we said I am not going to be like a certain family member only to find ourselves mimicking the same behaviors? This is because our mind subconsciously figures out how to achieve that which we dwell on the most. Try to focus on the attributes that are best suited to your family’s goals and nurture these to become the dominant. The less desirable traits will lose energy and the focus of the individual who possesses them will be replaced by the more productive trait. If you continue to do this practice for a long enough period, this trait will become the habit.
This is a more proactive move and will bring about the desired results without the stress so many families have come to accept as the norm. Learn to be less negative in your mentoring. As parents we train our children by example more than by words. Help them to develop proper attitudes by demonstrating how to deal with the frustration in a positive non-defeated way. Do not allow yourself to be over taken emotionally by a situation that is not letting you move in the direction you want to go. Simply redirect the negative to the positive and turn failure into victory. In every difficulty there is an equal course of action that will propel you even faster in the direction you do want to go.
Today I spoke with a former teen that I worked with for about a year. After this young man returned home, problems were addressed with the focus on the negative. The problems grew to a grand scale of crisis and stress which was tearing the family apart. Negativity was at the forefront. As a result, fear along with a “can’t do” attitude won out. After several months this young man moved out. He is now developing a plan and surrounding himself with a positive mental attitude. He is getting back on track and progressing well.
Read More, People, Senior Pastor
The Positive vs. the Negative
As we confront the everyday struggles of raising a family we must do our best to focus on the positive attributes of our family members. We can all agree that there are many areas of our personal lives that need to be addressed, however when we tend to focus our thoughts and energy on these negative areas they tend to grow in size rather than diminish. I believe that we should focus on the qualities that are good and take that energy to help grow these areas. As we do this the other areas will disappear altogether and become less of a stressor in the family arena. How many times have we said I am not going to be like a certain family member only to find ourselves mimicking the same behaviors? This is because our mind subconsciously figures out how to achieve that which we dwell on the most. Try to focus on the attributes that are best suited to your family’s goals and nurture these to become the dominant. The less desirable traits will lose energy and the focus of the individual who possesses them will be replaced by the more productive trait. If you continue to do this practice for a long enough period, this trait will become the habit.
This is a more proactive move and will bring about the desired results without the stress so many families have come to accept as the norm. Learn to be less negative in your mentoring. As parents we train our children by example more than by words. Help them to develop proper attitudes by demonstrating how to deal with the frustration in a positive non-defeated way. Do not allow yourself to be over taken emotionally by a situation that is not letting you move in the direction you want to go. Simply redirect the negative to the positive and turn failure into victory. In every difficulty there is an equal course of action that will propel you even faster in the direction you do want to go.
Today I spoke with a former teen that I worked with for about a year. After this young man returned home, problems were addressed with the focus on the negative. The problems grew to a grand scale of crisis and stress which was tearing the family apart. Negativity was at the forefront. As a result, fear along with a “can’t do” attitude won out. After several months this young man moved out. He is now developing a plan and surrounding himself with a positive mental attitude. He is getting back on track and progressing well.
Read More, People, Senior Pastor