"...for you are all better than that" ABM Ministries
In the past few days, while I was preparing for today, I got too relive many passion-filled memories from my days in high school. My ups and my downs, and it will all be summed up in just one speech. It truly is a great privilege to be speaking in front of you today. I never did think I would be giving this speech, so let's get this show on the road.
I would like to share a verse with you that helped me in many ways to carry out my life. That is Proverbs 19:26: "He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach." This is my life verse. It helped me to see the error of my ways. It made me realize what I was doing to my family. I was hurting them, on top of ruining their legacy. This was the verse that when I read it, it made me want to change. As you all know, change is never easy, but reading Proverbs 19:26 also gave me comfort during this transition. I hope that it can give you all comfort during your changes.
Many of you know where I come from, Las Vegas, Nevada; Sin City. That is truly an accurate description. That is where I was raised, as well as where I went to my first high school. I did things that I am ashamed of and I paid the price for it. My life was corrupt and things seemed worthless to me. My grades were extremely low and I rejected any morals I did have. There is a time though, where enough is enough. That's how I felt.
I wanted to change, to leave the restraint of a former friend, who is my new adversary. I wanted to prove to myself that I was put this hearth for other reasons than sin and destruction. I was on a pursuit of success. Like many of you, I was sent to ABM Ministries or Lighthouse Christian Academy. I am so thankful for it, like you all should be. My attitude towards life improved, as did my grades and morals. I made the "A" honor roll for the first time as well. More importantly, my relationship with my loving mother and father improved tremendously, and now I am graduating.
Now, my success was not all on my own. I have many people to thank and show my gratitude for. First, all my thanks goes to God for comforting me and answering my prayers. I want to thank my mother, for never giving up on me and always providing for me. I love you so much, I could have never done it without you. I would also like to thank Mrs.Carmen and Mr.Larry for taking me in, and for teaching and training me to be a leader. I would like to give Ms.Beth a special thank-you for all the help in school. You deserve an award for all that you do in the classroom. I would also like to thank you for your kind an optimistic spirit. Also to Mr.Reed and Mr.Dustin, for instilling in me the art of friendly competition. Your interaction with me means a lot and thank you for your cheerfulness.
At this time I would like to have a few words for the under-classmen. You, that are still in high-school, strive for better for yourselves and your families. I beg you to keep learning. Learn from all the mistakes I have made and from your own. If we fail to learn from our history, we will be doomed to repeat it. So please learn an soak up all the knowledge and wisdom you can. Learn, for goodness sake. One last thing, do not lower yourselves to poor standards, for you are all better than that.
Now I have come to the end and feel it is my time to bid farewell. Enjoy everything while you have it, and thank you, Lighthouse Christian Academy, let this diploma be the stepping stone for greater things ahead. Thank you and goodbye.
By: Jonathan Saltis
A Word from our Senior Pastor
The Positive vs. the Negative
As we confront the everyday struggles of raising a family we must do our best to focus on the positive attributes of our family members. We can all agree that there are many areas of our personal lives that need to be addressed, however when we tend to focus our thoughts and energy on these negative areas they tend to grow in size rather than diminish. I believe that we should focus on the qualities that are good and take that energy to help grow these areas. As we do this the other areas will disappear altogether and become less of a stressor in the family arena. How many times have we said I am not going to be like a certain family member only to find ourselves mimicking the same behaviors? This is because our mind subconsciously figures out how to achieve that which we dwell on the most. Try to focus on the attributes that are best suited to your family’s goals and nurture these to become the dominant. The less desirable traits will lose energy and the focus of the individual who possesses them will be replaced by the more productive trait. If you continue to do this practice for a long enough period, this trait will become the habit.
This is a more proactive move and will bring about the desired results without the stress so many families have come to accept as the norm. Learn to be less negative in your mentoring. As parents we train our children by example more than by words. Help them to develop proper attitudes by demonstrating how to deal with the frustration in a positive non-defeated way. Do not allow yourself to be over taken emotionally by a situation that is not letting you move in the direction you want to go. Simply redirect the negative to the positive and turn failure into victory. In every difficulty there is an equal course of action that will propel you even faster in the direction you do want to go.
Today I spoke with a former teen that I worked with for about a year. After this young man returned home, problems were addressed with the focus on the negative. The problems grew to a grand scale of crisis and stress which was tearing the family apart. Negativity was at the forefront. As a result, fear along with a “can’t do” attitude won out. After several months this young man moved out. He is now developing a plan and surrounding himself with a positive mental attitude. He is getting back on track and progressing well.
Read More, People, Senior Pastor
The Positive vs. the Negative
As we confront the everyday struggles of raising a family we must do our best to focus on the positive attributes of our family members. We can all agree that there are many areas of our personal lives that need to be addressed, however when we tend to focus our thoughts and energy on these negative areas they tend to grow in size rather than diminish. I believe that we should focus on the qualities that are good and take that energy to help grow these areas. As we do this the other areas will disappear altogether and become less of a stressor in the family arena. How many times have we said I am not going to be like a certain family member only to find ourselves mimicking the same behaviors? This is because our mind subconsciously figures out how to achieve that which we dwell on the most. Try to focus on the attributes that are best suited to your family’s goals and nurture these to become the dominant. The less desirable traits will lose energy and the focus of the individual who possesses them will be replaced by the more productive trait. If you continue to do this practice for a long enough period, this trait will become the habit.
This is a more proactive move and will bring about the desired results without the stress so many families have come to accept as the norm. Learn to be less negative in your mentoring. As parents we train our children by example more than by words. Help them to develop proper attitudes by demonstrating how to deal with the frustration in a positive non-defeated way. Do not allow yourself to be over taken emotionally by a situation that is not letting you move in the direction you want to go. Simply redirect the negative to the positive and turn failure into victory. In every difficulty there is an equal course of action that will propel you even faster in the direction you do want to go.
Today I spoke with a former teen that I worked with for about a year. After this young man returned home, problems were addressed with the focus on the negative. The problems grew to a grand scale of crisis and stress which was tearing the family apart. Negativity was at the forefront. As a result, fear along with a “can’t do” attitude won out. After several months this young man moved out. He is now developing a plan and surrounding himself with a positive mental attitude. He is getting back on track and progressing well.
Read More, People, Senior Pastor